Death, Second Life and Remembrance

Since the death of Ginny Talamasca, a beloved fashion designer in Second Life, I have been keeping up on the controversy brewing with regards to there being a formal day of remembrance for her. I did not know Ginny well, but I loved her work, which was always top notch and exquisite by nature.

It saddens me greatly to see Linden Lab’s hands off approach towards an official day of remembrance, stating to the effect that — we’re just platform developers and providers, not your community not your friends. Ok, well they didn’t say it in so many words, but they might as well have. I am quickly approaching my fourth Rezzday in Second Life and one of the things I always loved about Linden Lab was that they WERE our friends and part of our community. It is a rare experience in our postmodern times to actually be able to interact with a company in the way that many of the early residents did with Linden Lab employees from the executive management all the way down to the liaisons. I’ve seen the change in behavior change more and more over the past year or so. For all intents and purposes Linden Lab might as well be Exxon Mobil or Microsoft. Its sad, really.

While I think it would be wonderful for there to be an official Day of Remembrance for Ginny, why stop at just one person. Second Life has lost some of its most amazing residents in the past year with the deaths of Feliciaa Feaver and Jesse Malthus (to name a few), who both deserve a day of remembrance as well as well as the countless others who have died over the past year.

Perhaps, the solution is a Day of Remembrance for all our of Second Life friends who have passed on. This is why we have Veteran’s Day or President’s Day in America. It would not be feasible to have a day of remembrance for every single President or every single Veteran. I would also love to see a region that would in effect be like a memorial shrine to those friends who have died. A solemn place where their friends could go, virtually, to remember…to grieve. Perhaps, a memorial fund could be set up, where resident donations would be accepted that would pay for the land and tier.

5 comments to Death, Second Life and Remembrance

  • I think the “Day of SL Remembrance” is an excellent idea.

    The island I’m on acts as a memorial to many of the residents’ pets. Been thinking about starting a slideshow frame for SL-ers to send in photos of their departed cats.

    -ls/cm

  • Seraph Nephilim

    I remember reading somewhere very recently that there was a memorial sim, with tributes to many. If I come across the reference, I’ll let you know.

  • Thanks Seraph! I know that there is a mausoleum for Feliciaa Feaver in the graveyard at Transylvania. I’m sure that there are lots of personal tributes around the grid.

  • There are two such Memorial sites that I am aware of: The 9/11 sim and The Wall sim. T
    he 9/11 sim lists the names of those people who died in the US Twin Towers attacks.
    The 9/11 sim uses a similiar design as The Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall in Washington, DC. It was built by Liam Kanno of Silicon City.
    The Wall sim is a replica of The Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall in Washington, DC – The Wall lists all 58,223 names of these US veterans killed or missing in the war.
    I think it would be a very nice idea to have a sim where notable Second Life residents that have died and that have made a contribution to the Second Life community are laid to rest – in a memorial sim where new residents can learn about those that have come before them and did make a difference.
    I did not know Ginny, but it sounds like she did make a difference for many SL residents, and she does deserve a place in Second Life history in my opinion.
    Best Wishes
    Evian Argus

  • Fed Up

    Why not just have this privately for the friends of this avatar instead of making everyone memorialize it?

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